Well, I happen to have answered YES on all of the questions asked!
Apparently, I am not alone, and my friends have proven me right. I do not have the statistical data but, apparently, most of the people I know that fall in the age range 25-40 feel that they could have achieved more in life; and that happiness and greater satisfaction can be generated if perfection has been reached. I am not saying that this is appalling... Certainly, there are pros and cons... There is not a definite answer I can provide to answer this "Quarter-Life" Crisis - as friends and I claim the term to be. But, I can only voice out my personal experiences to possibly reach out to anyone who wants a lending hand.
In the past few years, I have come to a realization that this feeling of eagerness, anxiety, and worry due to life-long quest to perfection has to revolutionize to something completely opposite which, is Determination, Perseverance, and Love of Life. The "trick" is very simple! Sometimes, we only need to glance at the other side of the mirror, and have a glimpse of life and challenges in a different sight. Live Life!!!
As I always say: "I was born in 1980 but, I am happier now in 2010 compared to how my life was, back in 1998."
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